So we were stunned when it was claimed that the Essex hairdresser was getting close to Rosie Williams following her exit from the villa, after the reality stars were seen on a night out together.
But Arielle Free – Kem’s co-host on the official Love Island podcast The Morning After – has cleared up the rumours, and Kem and Rosie are not a thing. Link above in my bio & in my stories for this morning #The Morning After 🌴♥️☀️ • Ep: 20 Wes, Your Head At?
The other reason all these people are on OKC is, of course, that the site is free to join. Well, yes, in my experience of online dating, free is very definitely bad.
And it's here where you encounter the second major drawback. Free sites are packed full with spammers and scammers and people looking for casual sex.
Thereafter, the more questions you answer, the more likelihood the OKC algorithm will find you a match.
What this means is, with not much thought, you can fairly easily sculpt your profile to find, for example, a gay eugenics pipe smoker.
”) to the exceptionally weird (“What are your opinions on Eugenics? The questions are picked at random from a list of tens of thousands.
You have to answer 50 to begin with, so the site can build a picture of what you are.
Stop messing up my game with your tech issues, Tinder. Attempting to sell yourself with 5 profile pictures is torturous Here, world, take these carefully selected photos of myself and judge me with everything you’ve got. But it’s nothing compared to the struggle of crafting a bio How do I sum myself up in a way that makes me sound smart, emotionally stable, and not at all braggy? Constant threesome requests Surely Tinder should be for single people desperately trying not to be alone, not you smug couples trying to spice things up with a third. People immediately taking things to bizarrely sexual levels We’ve been speaking via app for three minutes, don’t think you know me well enough to be narrating your deepest sexual desires. It has massive stalker potential Yes, it’s unlikely, but someone COULD track you down by keeping an eye on when the ‘distance away’ decreases.
The existence of ‘Moments’ Nothing is more cringe than a guy updating his moments with kissy face selfies, dedicated to all his beloved matches. That ‘last active’ thing Nothing puts you off someone like seeing they were ‘active 3 seconds ago’ literally EVERY TIME you check. The fact that you will see everyone you know on there Sure, there’s nothing wrong with dating on an app. So many shirtless selfies Didn’t really need to see your nipples, thanks. Location misery is a real concern We may be having a great chat, but you’ve suddenly moved over 37km away.
People are either super keen to meet up, or weirdly content with never meeting Ask for a date after a few days of conversation, like a normal person. Swipe-related repetitive strain injury No amount of flirting is worth constant wrist pain 22.
The profusion of kinky folk can get fairly terrifying at times, especially if, like me, your sexual appetites are fairly tame.
One woman sent me an email with a five point list of things she wanted to do to me.