Meyers recommends letting him know that he should prioritize you over his mother -- at this point in your lives, it's only natural.
Again, choose your words carefully, such as, "I realize that your mother is an incredibly important part of your life. Can we talk about how you might feel comfortable adjusting this balance? Codependency is their issue to discuss and work out among themselves, not for you to fix. Be direct about your needs but be realistic about what he can achieve.
If this describes your partner, it's important to know how to approach him about the situation and what to expect.
Consider whether your partner's codependency is a deal-breaker, suggests Meyers.
If a man is too reliant on his mother it creates a triangulated relationship that causes resentment, according to clinical psychologist Seth Meyers.
Signs that your partner has a codependent relationship with his mother include avoiding confrontation with her, taking her side, an inability to say "no" to her and not allowing anything negative to be said about her.
She will likely have something negative to say about every wedding dress you choose!
To make matters even worse, when your big day comes, your future husband will make sure his mom is front and center during every portion of the ceremony and the reception.
If your guy spends more time communicating with his mom than talking to you, then you have a huge problem on your hands.
For example, ask if you three can have dinner together once a month as opposed to every weekend. Phil recommends he be specific about when his mother is invited into your lives and when she isn't.
Your partner also needs to demonstrate to his mother that he's loyal to you first and foremost.
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