But instead of being supportive as we went from property to property, she turned up her nose at every renovator’s delight with brown shag carpet we walked into. After we’d bought a house, she told me matter-of-factly that I’d been stupid to become a homeowner because the market was going to crash soon. Though I didn’t see it at the time, I think the fact I had something she didn’t have was too much for her to bear.Even with Jessica’s exorbitant paycheck, she never saved a single dollar.Deciding How to Break the News Expressing Yourself Effectively Avoiding Pitfalls of Breaking Up Community Q&A Online romantic relationships can be confusing.You may meet someone online and, despite long talks via text and email, simply not click in real life. If you don't feel a connection after a couple of dates, or if things are simply cooling off via your virtual connection, you may want to break things off.
Except now, the phone calls weren’t for us to chat about our lives ― they were for her to talk about day, the daily vent of sorts. Yes, she was egotistical and self-absorbed, but really, doesn’t everyone have flaws?
One hour and ten minutes into the conversation, after she still hadn’t asked me how I was, I snapped. I made an excuse to get off the phone and hung up ― because in that moment, I realised I didn’t actually respect the person Jessica had grown into. It was as if a veil had been lifted; I’d been blindsided all these years because she had been a good friend to me in the past, but take away all the history and I was left with present Jessica. She wasn’t at all like the sweet and caring 14 year-old I’d loved and adored.
We had discussed her job, her work friends, and her boyfriend. She’d grown into a very selfish, narcissistic person, and I finally saw all those times she’d acted strangely in the past were out of jealousy.
All those snippy comments weren’t because she was “looking out for” me, they were because she wanted to knock me down a peg.
I hadn’t even noticed how dysfunctional we’d become. Our friendship-ending fight broke out over Facebook, of all places. I often wonder if at some stage in the future our paths will cross again. My photo albums are filled with her smiling face; she’s so integral to every picture that if I attempted to cut her out, I’d be left with confetti.