She makes me come to her house to print things because she doesn’t want to open them on her computer.
I write columns under her name, and then we go through upwards of six drafts as she makes minuscule tweaks, forgets she made those tweaks, and changes them back to the original, all while criticizing me for not making any sense.• She volunteered to watch her infant granddaughter twice a week, but she started leaving the baby with me while she goes to her law office.
I was really upset afterwards that he would try to put me in that position where they would gang up on me in their therapist’s office, especially when he knows I’ve started seeking out other jobs. When I got there, she and my dad sat opposite me and spent 45 minutes scolding me, citing “complaints” by the out-of-state employees with whom I have great relationships and get along very well.
Then she said that the only solution she can think of to deal with my communication problems is for me to join her and my father at their couples therapist.
I’ve been depressed for months, but I’ve reached a new level of desperation.
Then he said, “Would you be open to seeing our family therapist with us to help with your job?
” I told him there was no way I was going to do that.
When I said I thought it was inappropriate to go see a therapist with my boss and my dad, she said she would write it into my job requirement or put me on probation.
She’s given me two days to agree to therapy or write a list of all the reasons I won’t go with them and what I’ll do to change my behavior.