During my early days into the world of online dating, I did an experiment. That’s like having a hole in your pocket which continues to leak money right to your door step.
Keeping everything else equal, I wanted to confirm whether there was a correlation with income and the number of responses I received. Just digging deep into some code, whilst watching the latest episode of ‘Suits’. You shouldn’t be surprised if an unwanted visitor knocks on your door, or commits an act of theft in the night.
And when 80% of the messages are either, you can’t really blame them for not responding to most messages—even if you personalize your mails.
The fact of the matter is that women receive far too much “unwanted” attention.
Especially when you get rejected countless times, with or without reason.It is a well-documented fact that they more money you have, the more attractive people perceive you to be.This stark increase in interest occurs in both genders, but it is even more prevalent in men. I’m not sharing this story to bash those who are attracted to money or call them out as gold diggers; the point I’m stressing is that your profile shouldn’t include components that will attract the wrong crowd.I used to feel like I was the wallpaper that would peel in the background when I’m in a room full with a thousand people.While I’m not a huge advocate of , I did notice that the less time I spent chasing affection and validation, the more I received in return, when I focused on growing myself as a person.