So the other day, we had a discussion going in the comments about cheaters who do it in the marital bed, the family motorhome, the truck, etc. I imagine there are the cheaters who keep their lives more nicely compartmentalized. My opinion is these freaks are a certain subset of cheaters — the real sickos. Sitting down to a nice dinner with their fuckbuddy. Two wrongs don’t make a right, but the hole created lends to such other problems as blocks in communciation, unconscious distancing, wandering eye syndrome and the desire for the intimate touch even if it’s from another person/lover.It’s a terrible place in an otherwise very happy marriage. She has asked me to be patient with her, but its two years now.It’s not enough to cheat, they get an extra kick from secretly debasing their chumps. It makes them feel powerful to see you unknowingly humiliated this way. Accepting the affair partner’s gifts and presence at your significant life events. They get to revel in your chumpdom and feel superior, united in their dirty little secret.
Making you pay for all the slights and grudges to their ego.
She attests to find me attractive still, but she just doesn’t feel the desire for sex anymore.
Waxing a little selfish, this leaves me in the lurch as a healthy 40 year old male who loves his wife, finds her completely desirable and desperately wants to consumate that love…
You assign meaning and significance to things because you are a chump.
Not safe in terms of risk and STDs.) So why the sicko cheater? Why make special transportation arrangements when they can drive your truck?