But every now and then, there comes a time when you unintentionally fall in love with a girl who seems right, but is completely wrong for you.[Read: 12 easy signs to know just how much a girl likes you] Are you in love with a girl who blows hot and cold, who behaves like your girlfriend at times and snubs you like you’re a nobody at other times when she doesn’t need you?They are not that attentive, and they don’t seem to want to know all that much about you.Even the cliche, generic questions they ask, such as “what do you do?Serial daters are often a product of this belief that dating is a numbers game, and they think that the more people they meet, the more likely they are to find that one special person.Therefore they try to go out on a thousand dates, thinking that this will maximize their chances of meeting Mr./Ms. While this kind of approach makes some logical sense, this very strategy of trying to meet as many people as possible is what kills their excitement and emotional availability, ironically leading to the opposite results from the ones desired.Why would she bother and try to talk through whatever that issue is?– she probably got 3 “hey”‘s from new guys while she was on the phone with you.
How do you weed out that type and try to minimize the time you waste on talking and going out with butterflies.
Serial daters just don’t care enough to make a good impression on you.
They are tired – they are tired of dating in general.
Serial dating is one of the more recent and widely discussed dating phenomenons, especially in larger, metropolitan areas.
Serial daters aka “butterflies” – generally appeared as a side effect of online dating and the seemingly infinite options we have to contact so many people who we would have never otherwise been able to talk and meet.