Thank goodness I followed this advice and ended up with my husband whose timing was slower than mine.I’m just saying it worked out great for me and could for you too.He didn’t text me for EXACTLY 3 days (I’m talking 72 hours to the dot) after the first date. It was an annoyingly casual text, too – “Are you watching the XYZ Basketball game? On the other hand, for the first few weeks I dated my husband he only called me once a week and we only saw each other once a week.He did make a second date at the end of the first, but waited 4-5 days to call.You don’t need to say much; just keep it light and simple.Respond to his comment on the game and then you can say you had a good time. That doesn’t make you over eager, too enthusiastic or desperate.Date More Than One Man at a Time Lucky for me, I didn’t care that much about the timing.
As a result, lots of men, good guys who would make great mates, have been beat up and feel dejected. So a little positive feedback that lets a man know you are happy to hear from him is a smart move. After a first or second date, they might wait three days before calling you.This is because they don’t want to appear over eager.Men Need Positive Feedback Too Another point about this situation is sometimes men look for positive feedback from the woman.You chose not to respond to his casual text which was your choice of course.