Consider each question and answer with what IS true, vs. It’s absolutely critical that you be completely honest in answering those questions, as THAT is the basis on which we match you with other singles on our site.
In the interest of seeing more of us succeed in our quest for love, I am putting it all out on the line — pouring my heart out to share these observations and tips with you.
And in both cases the thing that really counts is the YES.
It makes all the NO’s you had to go through to get there (be it one closed match, or a few less than great dates, or some promising prospects who up and disappear) completely worthwhile in the end. While some people are lucky and are matched to their love quickly, the vast majority have to wait a bit longer. We often fail to “keep our eye on the ball.” As we evaluate our matches, many of us get hung up on things that in the long run are not terribly important to a happy long-term relationship.
) a favor and resist the urge to take photos in your bathroom mirror.
And if you must take them, please don’t post them on your profile!