I need a man who is looking for a relationship and you don’t seem to be that guy.
No hard feelings, but I’m going to go find that guy.
It's easy to be a human yo-yo when it comes to dating: One week, you're all in, and the next, you're footloose and fancy free, totally "off" dating, only to start the whole process again the following week.
So if you are on Date Five or whatever with a real Romeo — not a Casanova, an actual Romeo — you're allowed to get excited and throw in the dating towel and commit to a relationship. Want more of Bustle's Sex and Relationships coverage?
Or rolling your eyes at the idea of going on dates. If you've been going on a lot of dates with unworthy types — the mansplainer, the type who just wants to string you along, mad ghosters — it is especially wise to hit pause, or at least slo-mo, on the whole dating thing.
Don't worry: Tinder will still be there when the dust settles, along with Hinge, Hitch, Align, Ok Cupid, Bumble, Happn, The League ... If you're dating lots and loving life, disregard this.
— and, of course, a healthy dash of quality over quantity. But if you're playing for keeps, it might be time to change your game.
Maybe you're convinced that there's no one out there for you. If you're rolling your eyes every time a message pings in, it might just be time to call it quits. Maybe in a few months, you'll be excited again, and then you can resume business as usual.